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Monday, October 15, 2007

Do not show much of love and care on any one because it creates a non-curable pain when they avoid you

Sunday, August 12, 2007

The One Minute Manager - Kenneth Blanchard, Ph.D. & Spencer Johnson, M.D.



About The Authors

Dr. Kenneth Blanchard, President of Blanchard Training and Development, Inc. (BTD), is an internationally known author, educator and consultant/trainer.

He is the co-author of the highly acclaimed and most widely used text on leadership and organization behaviour, Management of Organization Behaviour: Utilizing Human Resources.
Dr. Blanchard received his B.A. from Cornell University in Government and Philosophy, an M.A. from Colgate University in Sociology and Counselling and a Ph.D. from Cornell in Administration and Management.

Dr. Blanchard has advised such distinguished corporations and agencies as Chevron, Lockheed, AT&T, Holiday Inns, young Presidents' Organization, the United States Armed Forces, and UNESCO.

The Hersey/Blanchard Situational Leadership approach to management has been incorporated into the training and development programmes of Mobil Oil, Caterpillar, Union 76, IBM, Xerox, The Southland Corporation, and numerous fast-growing entrepreneurial companies.

In his role as management consultant, Dr. Blanchard teaches seminars throughout America. He is President of Blanchard Training and Development, Inc., in Escondido, California.

Dr. Spencer Johnson is the Chairman of Candle Communications Corporation, and an active author, publisher, lecturer and communications consultant. He has written more than a dozen books dealing with medicine and psychology, and has over three million copies of his books in print.

Dr. Johnson's education includes a degree in psychology from the University of Southern California, an M.D. degree from the Royal College of Surgeons in Ireland, and medical clerkships at Harvard Medical School and the Mayo Clinic.

He has been Medical Director of Communications for Medtronic, a pioneering manufacturer of cardiac pacemakers, and Research Physician for the Institute For Interdisciplinary Studies, a medical-social think-tank in Minneapolis. He has also served as a consultant in communications for the Centre for the Study of the Person, Human Dimensions in Medicine Programme; and to the Office of Continuing Education at the School of Medicine, University of California in La Jolla, California.

The One Minute Manager, like all the other books Dr. Johnson has written, reflects his continuing interest in helping people to experience less stress and better health through better communications.

Dr. Johnson and Dr. Blanchard have also produced, in conjunction with 20th Century-Fox, The One Minute Manager videotape.


The Symbol

The One Minute Manager's symbol - a one minute readout from the face of a modern digital watch - is intended to remind each of us to take a minute out of our day to look into the faces of the people we manage. And to realize that they are our most important resources.


About The Book


The book starts with the search of a bright young man who was looking for an effective manager. He wanted to work for one. He wanted to become one.

He had seen many 'tough' managers whose organizations seemed to win while their people lost. Some of their superiors thought they were good managers. Many of their subordinates thought otherwise.

The man also met many 'nice' managers whose people seemed to win while their organizations lost. Some of the people who reported to them thought they were good managers. Those to whom they reported had their doubts.

It was as though most managers in the world were primarily interested either in results or in people. The managers who were interested in results often seemed to be labelled 'autocratic', while the managers interested in people were often labelled 'democratic'.

The young man thought each of these managers - the 'tough' autocrat and the 'nice' democrat - were only partially effective. 'It's like being half a manager', he thought.

According to him, Effective managers are those who manage themselves and the people they work with so that both the organization and the people profit from their presence.

Then he began hearing marvellous stories about a special manager who lived, ironically, in a nearby town. He telephoned the special manager's secretary for an appointment. On response, he got the option to pick any time during that week except Wednesday morning.

The young man quietly chuckled because this supposedly marvellous manager sounded very strange to him. What kind of manager had that kind of time available? But the young man was fascinated.

Later on, he found out that that the special manager held regularly scheduled meetings with his subordinates on Wednesday mornings.


On special manager's desk, a plaque was kept which reminded him of a practical truth. It read :
People Who Feel Good About Themselves Produce Good Results


When the young man asked the special manager to describe himself, the manager laughed and said, 'I'm a One Minute Manager. I call myself that because it takes very little time for me to get big results from people.'

How does the One Minute Manager do this? Behind his success lie just three secrets which he gets to know through three people who reported to him.


The first of the three secrets to One Minute Management is One Minute Goal Setting.


One Minute Goal Setting is simple :
1. Agree on your goals.
2. See what good behaviour looks like.
3. Write out each of your goals on a single sheet of paper using less than 250 words.
4. Read and re-read each goal, which requires only a minute or so each time you do it.
5. Take a minute every once in a while out of your day to look at your performance, and
6. See whether or not your behaviour matches your goal.


He found out that the motto of the organisation was :

Help People Reach Their Full Potential Catch Them Doing Something Right


The second of the three secrets to One Minute Management is One Minute Praising.


The One Minute Praising works well when you :
1. Tell people right from the start that you are going to let them know how they are doing.
2. Praise people immediately.
3. Tell people what they did right - be specific.
4. Tell people how good you feel about what they did right, and how it helps the organization and the other people who work there.
5. Stop for a moment of silence to let them 'feel' how good you feel.
6. Encourage them to do more of the same.
7 Shake hands or touch people in a way that makes it clear that you support their success in the organization.


A One Minute Reprimand is the third secret to becoming a One Minute Manager.


The One Minute Reprimand works well when you:

1. Tell people beforehand that you are going to let them know how they are doing and in no uncertain terms.

The first half of the reprimand:
2. Reprimand people immediately.
3. Tell people what they did wrong - be specific.
4. Tell people how you feel about what they did wrong - and in no uncertain terms.
5. Stop for a few seconds of uncomfortable silence to let them feel how you feel.

The second half of the reprimand:
6. Shake hands, or touch them in a way that lets them know you are honestly on their side.
7. Remind them how much you value them.
8. Reaffirm that you think well of them but not of their performance in this situation.
9. Realize that when the reprimand is over, its's over.


Finally, the young man found out that why special manager called himself a One Minute Manager. He set One Minute Goals with his staff to make sure they know what they are being held accountable for and what good performance looks like. You then try to catch them doing something right so you can give them a One Minute Praising. And then, finally, if they have all the skills to do something right and they don't, you give them a One Minute Reprimand.


The One Minute Manager showed the young man one of the notes that he kept on his desk. It read :

The Best Minute I Spend Is The One I Invest In People


The One Minute Manager also showed his visitor the plaque he had made for himself. It read :

Everyone Is A Potential Winner
Some People Are Disguised As Losers,
Don't Let Their Appearances Fool You



Everyone who worked with the One Minute Manager had a plaque near them that read :

Take A Minute :
Look At Your Goals
Look At Your Performance
See If Your Behaviour Matches Your Goals

One of the favourite plaques of the One Minute Manager and also the key to a really successful reprimand read :

We Are Not Just Our Behaviour
We Are The Person Managing Our Behaviour


Lastly, the young man was showed the plaque which the One Minute Manager had created to remind him of how goals - the One Minute Goals - and consequences - the Praisings and the Reprimands - affect people's behaviour read :

Goals Begin Behaviours Consequences Maintain Behaviours

Monday, July 30, 2007

16 O in a P - 16 Ounces in a Pounds

7 H of R - 7 Hills of Rome
Conscience is the inner voice which warns us that someone may be looking.

Jigsaw Puzzles

http://www.jigzone.com/

The site where you can solve jigsaw puzzles and also lets you upload your own photos and make a jigsaw out of it.

Sunday, June 24, 2007

Aur Batao

fr1---hello
fr2---hi
fr1---hey h r u???
fr2---m fine!!! Wht abt u???
fr1---m fine too
fr2---cool
fr1---so howz life???
fr2--gud
fr1--hmmmm
fr1--aur batao? ( passing the ball to the other side)
fr2--hmmm everything as usual
fr2--so wht else???
fr1--nothing much
fr2--ok
fr2--aur batao? ( passing the ball to the other side)

And it goes on like this untill they give up

Are u also having such conversation with ur frnds, then u ralso suffering from "aur batao syndrome" .

It means ur life is all screwed up following the usual monotonous routine.

Probably, you need a change in your life something which is exciting,something which is adventurous, something which really makes u feel good

Correct????

yeh sab to thik hai ab

AUR BATAO????????

Before & After Marriage

Before the marriage:

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: NO! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: NO! Why you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Yes!
She: Will you hit me?
He: No way! I'm not such kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.


Now after the marriage you can read it from below to up !!!!

Monday, June 11, 2007

Born Free - Laura Hird

Born Free is Laura Hird's first novel.

Punchy, acerbic, sharp-witted and above all acutely observed, Born Free tells the story of an ordinary family who are all trying to escape from something...and each other.

The interactions between Jake, Joni, Angie and Vic reveal a hellish cocktail of adolescent and mid-life crises; the savagery of sibling rivalry; the waking nightmare of a marriage gone cold and, naturally, the unbridgeable, infernal chasm between the generations.

It's a story of everyday life.

Monday, April 30, 2007

A-Z of the 2007 Cricket World Cup

A-Z of the 2007 World Cup which came to end with Australia beating Sri Lanka in the final.

A is for Australians, everywhere. As well as the champion team, there were Australian players in the Ireland and Scotland squads while India, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh and West Indies all started with Australian coaches.

B is for biceps, particularly those of Australia all-rounder Andrew Symonds whose participation in the tournament had been put in doubt because of arm surgery.

C is for crying and the tears of Bermuda's 17-year-old seamer Malachi Jones who wept and wept and wept after taking the wicket of India opener Robin Uthappa with his fourth ball. However, he would have blubbed even more when he finished with 1-74 off seven overs.

D is for drinking with a group of England players, and Andrew Flintoff to the fore, exercising their right arms with so much vigour that the all-rounder was dropped for one match while others were fined. South Africe were also at the centre of 'late-night booze shame' tabloid frenzy but, unlike England, they made progress in the tournament.

E is for empty stadiums which became a constant, depressing sight throughout the tournament as locals stayed away in protest at the price of tickets. It got worse when India and Pakistan failed to reach the second round.

F is for four wickets in four balls. The unique feat was achieved by Sri Lanka seamer Lasith Malinga in Guyana although his efforts were not enough to prevent South Africa from securing a one-wicket win. F is also for Ferret, as in the bizarre dance performed by Ireland seamer Dave Langford-Smith every time he took a wicket.

G is for Gibbs. South Africa batsman Herschelle Gibbs made history by becoming the first man to hit sixes in an over in a one-day international, achieving the landmark against hapless Netherlands in St Kitts. G is also for Adam Gilchrist who hit a record 149 in the final to see his team to victory.

H is for Hayden with the Australian opener hitting the fastest ever World Cup 100 in just 66 balls and going on to dominate the scoring charts. H is also for humour as illustrated by Dutch skipper Luke van Troost after seeing his slow bowler Daan van Bunge pulverised by Gibbs' record-setting hitting. "I told him to bowl a slower one," said the captain to his teammate. "'I just did'," was the bemused reply.

I is for Inzamam-ul-Haq. The proud Pakistan skipper saw his team humiliated by Ireland and devastated by the death of coach Bob Woolmer. Inzamam won the hearts of the Kingston crowd and millions watching around the world when he made a tearful exit at Sabina Park after announcing his one-day international retirement.

J is for Johnston. Ireland's Trent Johnston danced as close to an Irish jig as his ageing Aussie bones could manage every time he claimed a wicket. His teammates likened it to a chicken. J is also for Ed Joyce who helped Ireland qualify for the World Cup before switching allegiance to England. His reward? He was promptly dropped when the runs dried up.

K is for kids. In a trademark sign that a tournament is failing to woo the locals, World Cup organisers were reduced to busing in thousands of bemused school pupils to fill acres of empty seats. In Barbados, 4,000 of them added their shrill voices to the proceedings. K is also for South African all-rounder Kallis who, despite his critics, plays the game his way.

L is for Lara. The West Indies batting great, whose career was peppered with a host of records and runs, wept as he bowed out of international cricket unable to stem the decline of a once-feared team. L is also for Dwayne Leverock, the 255-pound (116kg) Bermuda spinner whose ungainliness perfectly illustrated the team's problems on their debut appearance.

M is for Mir. Pervez Mir was the Pakistan team spokesman who was a constant feature on TV screens and in newspapers mounting a dignified response to the Woolmer tragedy. M is also for Malinga, the bleach-blond Sri Lanka seamer with the slingshot action which befuddled South Africa. M is also for McGrath, the veteran Aussie bowler who claimed the all-time World Cup wickets record.

N is for no-hopers. Hang your heads in shame Bermuda, Scotland and Canada who played nine games and failed to muster a point between them.

O is for over-rated. Step forward India, the financial powerhouse of the international game who lost to Bangladesh and beat a hasty retreat home. O is also for over-priced as in tickets, 90 dollars in St Kitts for example where the average weekly wage is 100 dollars, and hotels who thought it fun to triple their rates.

P is for the Pegasus Jamaica which briefly became one of the most famous hotels in the world. It was where the Pakistan team stayed and where Bob Woolmer was murdered on March 18. On a lighter note, P is also for pedalo, Flintoff's transport of choice on his infamous night out.

Q is for quit and plenty of people were doing it at the Caribbean - Lara, Inzamam, Greg Chappell, Dav Whatmore, Duncan Fletcher and Clive Lloyd amongst others.

R is for resting. Sri Lanka caused controversy when they gave Chaminda Vaas and Muttiah Muralitharan a breather for the Super Eights match against Australia. The Aussies said it was something they would never do while Lanka wicketkeeper Kumar Sangakkara accused critics of double standards.

S is for Shields. Jamaica police's deputy commissioner Mark Shields was the urbane and articulate detective leading the hunt for Woolmer's killers.

T is for teenagers. Bangladesh's young side, which defeated mighty India and South Africa, was packed with fearless talent and made such an impression that they are already being considered as a potential threat when the 2011 World Cup takes place on the sub-continent.

U is for unsung heroes. The pre-tournament hype and publicity revolved around the marquee names but it was the likes of Andrew Hall, Scott Styris and Brad Hogg who were manning the barricades

V is for Lou Vincent. The New Zealand opener made two noughts and then a century. But just when he thought his World Cup was up and running, he was ruled out with a broken wrist inflicted upon him by teammate Shane Bond in the nets.

W is for Woolmer. Former England Test batsman Bob Woolmer was a well-liked and hugely-respected coach admired for his even-handed relationship with players and for his innovative methods. Deeply depressed by Pakistan's shock loss to Ireland on March 17, he died the following day. His death is being treated as murder and the hunt for the killers is ongoing.

X is for X-factor and X-rated. Bangladesh had both, the former with their stunning wins over India and South Africa, the latter for their tame, lame defeat to Ireland.

Y is for youth. Just 20 years old but fresh-freshed enough to suggest mid-teens, Stuart Broad held his nerve in his first World Cup match to hit the runs which give England a one-wicket win over West Indies. It also sent Brian Lara into retirement on a losing note.

Z is for Zimbabwe. A team in turmoil, they managed a tie with Ireland and very little else. Disenchanted on their return home, two of their most promising players, Vusi Sibanda and Anthony Ireland, left to take up lucrative club contracts in Australia and England respectively

Saturday, April 14, 2007

Best Is The Management Student

Doctor is given a book and asked how much time he shall take to read it completely. He says, 2 months.

Then a lawyer is given the same book and asked the same question, and he replies 2 weeks.

Finally, when the MBA is asked the same question, he says, "Exam kab hai..